60hours/week? I'm guessing saturdays as well?
I clock in about ~45hrs/week 2nd shift, have 2 young boys (not your typical calm ones) that I have to take to school/pick up from school --the normal deal. I try to swap around saturday - sunday, depending on my wife's work schedule.
You should tell your wife, "I've been working too hard, you need to relax, take a few sundays here n there to
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